Guest article by Kati Gehres
Conquering a woman’s heart is easier than you think!
Many men believe that they need money, abs and a luxury car to win over a woman. This may be true for some women, but if you are looking for a true equal partner with whom you can experience a soul mate and a rewarding partnership, then something completely different matters.
So before we delve deeper, the question is: what are you looking for? A fun meeting or a relationship? If you’re looking for a casual hookup, a one-night stand, or something that lasts a few weeks, you’ll rightly assume that your wallet and body will determine whether you win over a woman. If you’re looking for a real partnership, it’s worth reading on.
The most common mistakes when it comes to conquering a woman
First, let’s look at what most men think they need to do to make a woman notice them and fall in love with them sooner or later.
#1 It’s not your job or your portfolio that makes a woman choose you (or against).
When a woman is ready to have a soul mate, it is not the partner’s wallet that interests her, nor the reputation, profession and prestige that result from it – or not. For anyone who doesn’t have a fat wallet or an expensive Porsche nearby: take a deep breath and relax. A real relationship isn’t about material things.
If a woman is interested in your car, your house, your job and your wallet, then she is not really interested in a soul mate, she is just looking for a breadwinner – it is never a dating relationship. equal. When we love, we do not judge or choose the “best option,” but we let our hearts guide us. In other words: the beauty of the soul is much more important. We’ll see what that means later.
#2 It’s not your looks that make you interesting to a woman.
Many men believe that having six pack abs and a toned body will make it easier for them to conquer a woman. That’s true too. But that doesn’t make it any easier to find a real partnership. Because: You are selected based on your body. The question is: has the woman seen your soul? Do you want her to see the real you?
A six-pack abs does not guarantee a long and happy relationship. A beautiful body is not enough to make a woman happy. It’s the interaction between you, the conversations, the listening, the positive vibes you give off (or not) that determine if a woman considers you for a relationship.
This is how women choose their partners: If you are looking for a partner
Now let’s see what you can do to avoid having to woo a woman like crazy and become a magnet for women. Because they feel comfortable around you, are attracted to you, and are attracted to your masculinity – not your wallet, your car, or your job.
Here are four simple behaviors that are guaranteed to get a woman’s attention and keep her interested in you.
#1: Be attentive with her
Let’s start very simply. Most men try to impress women by talking about their work, investments and travels. Talk a lot. But you probably also know that women like to talk – and we like it when people listen to us. Attentive.
This means: don’t put your phone on the table when you’re talking. Make it quiet. And shut your mouth and let them speak. Listen consciously. Don’t think about anything else, don’t try to be particularly eloquent or funny, just give her space to talk about herself. Ask questions and give him time to answer. You’ll learn a lot about her, what she’s like, what’s important to her – and she’ll feel seen, heard and valued by you. This way you will always score points.
#2: Don’t try to change it.
Most of the women you will meet have already had several relationships. Some happy, some traumatic. Some may have encountered narcissistic partners and are now particularly cautious. Many women pay more attention to “red flags,” warning signs that are preventing them from becoming more involved with you.
So: Do you think she’s great the way she is? Or do you have suggestions for improving his life, his appearance, his behavior? We are all unique, everyone has their own story. The last thing we want is a partner who makes us feel like we’re not enough. If a partner wants to change us, they simply say “not good enough for me.” And most people feel this feeling widely. So avoid well-meaning advice, criticism and suggestions for improvement – at least when you’re getting to know yourself.
#3: Give her space to be herself
If you want to know a woman and discover all her sides, then give her space: space to be wild, to be free, to laugh, to play, to do stupid things. Ensure lightness, fluidity and informality.
When you feel relaxed and safe with a man, when you can be yourself, when you can do stupid things together, then he automatically becomes more interesting.
Most people have expectations of others, certain ideas, hopes, wishes and checklists. With that, they have a date. And these checklists are built from date to date – until the other person fails or succeeds. It’s not sexy. A true partnership of souls does not need a prior test: it needs lightness, freedom and joy experienced together. So that both can meet on equal terms and in love.
#4: Reassure her that you want exactly her (and not just anyone)
In the age of Tinder and the like, most people date more than one person. Unless a woman feels like you chose her, she won’t open her heart to you.
So the simple question is: do you want it? Or any? Why do you want it? Can you commit to meeting one woman at a time rather than all at once? Your chances of finding love increase enormously because women instinctively sense a man’s intentions and commitment.
When a woman feels like she has your full attention and there are no other women on the horizon, she will give you more space in her life. This means: more time, a deeper understanding of their lives, better access to their hearts. And it gives you a real chance to get to know yourself better.
Conclusion: give him what you expect: presence and appreciation.
You see, it’s actually not that difficult. Women basically have the same expectations as men when it comes to dating. We want to be seen – ourselves, not the makeup, figure or hairstyle. We want to be heard, that is, to feel genuine interest.
And we want to know if we have a future with the other person – experiencing a beautiful moment here and now, full of appreciation, emotional and mental presence and joy.
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About the author
Kati Gehres is Europe’s first soul whisperer. She has helped countless people transform deep blockages and manifest them powerfully. Kati Gehres describes herself as clairvoyant, clairvoyant and clairsentient. This helps him see and heal the deepest blockages on the soul’s path by reconnecting people with the power of the soul. His website: www.divine-glow.com